Alcoholics can't control their drinking. If you are
an alcoholic, you have a compulsive desire to drink.
When you drink, your negative personality traits, such
as anger, may be intensified and your problems may seem
magnified. In order to cover up your alcoholism, you
may tend to overdo in other areas of your life.
Chances are, you need a drink at certain times of
the day in order to get going, to face your problems,
or to relax. And you may even drink on the job. Of course
this means that your work and efficiency are slacking
off. And your home life is probably suffering as well.
You are enslaved by the sin of alcoholism.
Yet there is hope. God is able to deliver you completely
by cleansing, sanctifying and justifying you (I Corinthians
6:9-11). Though alcohol abuse is a failing of the flesh
(Galatians 5:19-21), the Holy Spirit can, and will,
produce the self-control you needto overcome it (Galatians
5:22-23).
What Scripture Says
"He who conceals his sins does not
prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them
finds mercy." (Proverbs 28:13).
"Therefore confess your sins to each other and
pray for each other so that you may be healed. The
prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective"
(James 5:16).
"If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves
andthe truth is not in us. If we confess our sins,
he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins
and purify us from all unrighteousness" (I John
1:8,9).
"Your wickedness will punish you. Your backsliding
will rebuke you. Consider then and realize how evil
and bitter it is for you when you forsake the Lord
your God and have no awe of me" (Jeremiah 2:19).
"For God did not send his Son into the world
to condemn the world, but to save the world through
him" (John 3:17).
"Jesus answered her, 'If you knew the gift of
God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would
have asked Him and He
would have given you living water'" (John 4:10).
"But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit
comes on you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem,
and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the
earth" (Acts 1:8). (Here is the key to beating
alcoholism -- through the power to overcome.)
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness
and self-control. Against such things there is no
law" (Galatians 5:22, 23). (God will produce
will power for the powerless.)
"Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery.
Instead, be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians
5:18).
"Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler: whoever
is led astray by them is not wise" (Proverbs
20:1).
Is There Hope?
If you have a drinking problem, you have probably felt
condemned by yourself and others. Rather than condemning,
however, God emphasizes how to overcome by receiving
salvation, the baptism of the Holy Spirit and the fruit
of the Spirit. With these you will have the ability
to become free and stay free of alcohol.
The saying "once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic"
is based on the fact that a recovered alcoholic can
never go back to drinking in any amount without being
controlled by it again. Therefore, you need to ask God
to deliver you from the desire to drink at all.
Practical Help
You probably have tried to stop drinking before and
it has not worked for you. You may have tried religion
or you may even be a Christian. What you need is practical
spiritual help. Seekout a Spirit-baptized counselor.
Ask him to pray for deliverance for you -- especially
from compulsiveness, psychological and physical dependence
and even from the desire to drink.
You may have been told, "You must stop drinking
and never drink again." But the pressure of having
to face life without drinking may be overwhelming. Focus
on the present. Decide that you will not have a drink
right now.
"Live one day at a time. Each day has
enough trouble of its own"(Matthew 6:34).
You need to modify and change your lifestyle. The Bible
speaks of "being transformed by the renewing of
your mind" (Romans12:2). You can renew your mind
through your reading and thinking habits. The Bible
and devotional testimonial books will be most helpful.
Dwell on God and His Word rather than on your problem.
Learn and follow the principle of praise (honor and
respect) to God each time you are tempted to drink.
"Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer
to God a sacrifice of praise -- the fruit of lips that
confess his name" (Hebrews 13:15). It is important
to change your perspective from yourself to God, and
from the drink to God. Praise God the Problem-solver
rathe rthan the problem. Remember that you can be just
as chained to sin by trying not to do it as you are
by doing it. Because as long as your attention is on
the sin, you are honoring it. But if your attention
is on God, you are honoring Him. "Let us fix our
eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith"
(Hebrews 12:2).
Contact a Spirit-filled church, or prayer group, and
Alcoholics Anonymous. The 700 Club or a local church
pastor can help you do this.
You may have a spouse, relative, or friend who is not
an alcoholic and wants to help you. He or she may need
salvation, the baptism of the Spirit and the fruit of
the Spirit for their own sake. They can then better
intercede for your deliverance from alcohol.
Your close relatives may need to know how to help spiritually
in your effort to recover. They should know that openly
condemning an alcoholic is not effective. It may just
feed your sense of "joyous agony" because
you are "getting what youdeserve." Jesus came
to save, not to condemn (John 3:17).
That's not to say that they should tolerate your alcoholic
behavior. Instead, they should offer to help you. Your
spouse, friends, or relatives can find out how to help
you by contacting a Spirit-filled fellowship, AA, or
ALANON, an organization for friends and relatives of
alcoholics.
As You Pray
If you are not yet a born-again Christian, ask God
to forgive you, save you and fill you with the Holy
Spirit. An unforgiven, unclean drunkard cannot inherit
the Kingdom of God (I Corinthians 6:10; I John 1:8,9;
Romans 10:13; Luke 13:5; Acts 1:8).
Pray for deliverance. Offer thanks and praise for God's
deliverance, mercy, ever-present help and power to overcome.
Pray for deliverance from fear -- the fear that "I
won't be able to make it" (II Timothy 1:7).
References/Homework
II Timothy 2:1,4,5,11-13 Boldness, courage, God's faithfulness
Philippians 3:12-14 Forget the past Psalms 103:12 Separation
from sin Isaiah 40:31 Strength renewed John 8:36 Free
in Jesus Galatians 5:1 Freedom assured Galatians 5:22-23
Fruit of the Spirit Romans 10:17 Faith imparted Romans
8:31-37 Assurance in Christ Proverbs 29:25 Safety in
Jesus
Using a Bible concordance, study every reference for
"fear," "deliverance," "healing,"
and "praise."
Practice "agreeing with God" about His promises
for you and "disagreeing with Satan" who tries
to accuse you to yourself, to God, to your family, friends,
employers, etc.
Seek out other reformed drinkers. Look for their support.
Read"Prison to Praise" and other books by
Merlin Carothers.
"The Twelve Steps for Christians," Recovery
Publications, which contains a list of Resource Organizations
and a list of additional reading interest.
"Addiction of Grace," Gerald G. May, M.D.
"The Alcoholic Anonymous Big Book"
"The Serenity Bible," Thomas Nelson
What to do the first day without a drink!
1. Clean up, dress up.
2. Try to eat something.
3. Don't exaggerate any discomfort.
4. Avoid arguments and other conflicts.
5. Do things you can easily do.
6. Face your social situation realistically.
7. Stay away from your drinking buddies.
8. Know that you are not alone. Many other people
are goingthrough what you are today.
9. Don't waste time worrying about whether you
will sleep tonight.
The next few days
1. Remember, God loves you. Sin has no claim upon
you.
2. Be prepared to refuse a drink.
3. Don't rationalize that: (a) I need a drink to
keep going, or (b) the bad times are to be blamed
for my being underfed or overly tired.
4. Reaffirm, "I'm not going to have a drink
today!"
5. Remember Phil. 4:13, "I can do everything
through Him who gives me strength."
6. Contact a pastor and ask for prayer and other
help as you need it. God has a great love for you.
Ask Him to lead you to other Christians to whom He
has given a love and concern for you and other people
who have similar problems.
Scripture references are taken form the New American
Standard translation of the Bible.